Toward the bottom of this article you will find a story from a female bodybuilder about how she was approached at a bodybuilding show by the man who became her husband:
While we don’t know anything about him, the confidence he exuded in an environment where guys would normally show weakness by being intimidated from all of the muscle around them he evidently stood out enough for her to call him back.
Getting confidence like that isn’t easy for a lot of guys, as it stems from their backgrounds and insecurities as well as negative programming from friends and family. Instead of dealing with the issues the guys try to buy affection, pay for posing, become a “fan” instead of someone she respects or other signs of weakness. This is not your fault as most information for men who like muscular women doesn’t address the underlying issues.
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