If you plan to have any sort of meaningful long-term relationship with a woman who currently or plans to compete on stage soon, then there are a few lifestyle changes you may want to make if you haven’t done so already. Here are just a few:
- Eat cleaner. This doesn’t mean that you have to eat like she does, but keep your food intake fairly clean. Join her on food prep days and eat healthy for your personal goals.
- Understand female psychology. Due to possible mood changes with dieting, be sure that you truly connect with her emotionally before she gets into the final weeks of dieting. Remind her that you are on her side and support her competition efforts. Make sure that the two of you have special emotional connections on lots of levels so that you have a deep, meaningful balance that goes far beyond competitions and any “drama” which takes place at the competitions or on the forums
- Get used to her being photographed and have her photos online. Talk in-depth with her about your respective limits as to where is the “line” for her upcoming photos. Remember that other people such as your family members, friends, co-workers and others may see the photos so be clear on where your limits are.
- Help her become a “money draw”. Whether it is for supplement companies, clothing companies, contest promoters, and fan websites if she wants to use her muscle to make money then discuss with her methods to make money intelligently.
- If she trains clients then get used to possible odd hours of getting up in the morning.
- Discuss with her the core, underlying reasons why the two of you are together. Assuming that she is a good looking woman (in addition to her physique) then she will be approached by lots of men. You don’t need to spend most of your day worrying if she is going to cheat on you, so make sure that the two of you benefit each other in a way that no one else can. These kinds of discussions aren’t always easy to have, but they are worth it in the long run to boost the chances that you have a fantastic relationship that can withstand others trying to ruin it
The above is not an inclusive list, of course. Nonetheless it can be a helpful start to give the two of you increased chances of having a wonderful relationship that can be based on more than just money or physical appeal.