Review Of Tiffany Taylor’s “Guy Gets Girl” E-book
• Women want a man who knows who he is and is confident that a woman is going to be attracted to him
VERY TRUE with muscular women. This is one of the primary reasons muscular women choose the men they are with. They like a guy who is confident and who is comfortable in his own skin.
• Women want to get through the awkward first conversation
Very True. They hate awkwardness because they, more than many other women, tend to be focused and driven. With so many strangers stopping them, they just don’t have the time to treat everyone like a long-lost friend. They need to know, and know QUICKLY, if you are the type of guy who is worth her time or not.
• Kill your self-doubt
Muscular women can sense weak guys. Some guys who have powerful jobs even hire muscular women to serve as a dominatrix or in some other role where the guy will then become submissive. The problem with this is that you never get what you truly want: a gorgeous muscular woman, who stops traffic with her looks, to spend her time with you in fun and playful ways.
• Strength is more than just physical
Very true here as well. You have to be comfortable with her strength and stamina levels. In fact, encourage them in her but more like that of an athlete. In essence, she is an athlete; but the structure of a bodybuilding or figure competition does not have the same standards as that of women’s basketball, beach volleyball, track & field, etc. Therefore, her athleticism can be overlooked due to the rules of the contest. Nonetheless it is still there.
If you were an athlete yourself, then remember how passionate you were about your sport. This is what she is experiencing, although many women get into bodybuilding and figure competitions at a later age than you did when you played basketball, baseball, tennis, etc. Remember this, and remember that your “strength” comes in many forms.
• Remember that many women, despite their beauty to you, at times feel ugly
This is somewhat true. While very few women are completely satisfied with their aesthetics, many muscular women know that they are good-looking. This is because they command attention with their physiques, men and women privately admit that they love muscles, and… having muscles is a subconscious human indicator of virility, strength, and power.
The reason many muscular women may not feel beautiful is usually as a result of other factors in her their lives. Whether it’s alienation from family members, staying too long with a boyfriend who ultimately cheated, poor financial decisions, the stress of losing a loved one, etc. these women tend to feel “less than beautiful” during times of stress.
Recognize this fact and show her that she is beautiful when she would otherwise be feeling down. This does NOT mean to supplicate and be “cutesy.” No woman (regardless of her physique) wants that! Instead, being a “man” means knowing when to offer to simply hold her and let her feel safe. Yes, it is possible for a woman to feel safe in your company even if she bench presses more than you do. Just remember to balance making her feel safe with a sense of playfulness, adventure, intellectual stimulation, teasing, and genuine respect for her as a woman.
It’s not as hard as it looks!
• Women look for leaders
Muscular women, by default, must look for men who are leaders in some form or fashion. Can you command the respect of other men when in her presence? Can you balance being firm with being ethical & polite? Can you handle yourself with class even when other men fail to do so?
Whether a muscular woman sees you in the gym giving a “spot” to an elderly lady needing a hand with the weight machine, or if she sees you comfortable in your own skin even if you are around guys who are bigger and stronger than you, then you stand a chance of capturing her attention. Muscular women get requests from otherwise normal guys asking to be submissive around them; so if you show strength and leadership in her presence you will automatically stand out.
• Women love guys who are presentable
This is true with virtually all women. Ask yourself this question, “If I were a good-looking muscular woman, would I want to go out with a guy who took care of himself at the same level I currently do?” If the answer is yes, and you have nose hairs longer than a baseball bat, chances are that you need some good female advice right away!! If the answer is no, then ask yourself what can you do to clean yourself up pretty quickly.
Here are some quick things you can do in two hours’ time: trim nose/ear hair, shave if your facial hair is unkempt, floss your teeth, trim nails (hands & feet), use any skin remedies to reduce blemishes, get a haircut, use or get a better deodorant, go to a discount store which offers some good clothing and upgrade one piece of your wardrobe, shine your shoes, and choose an exercise plan.
Will doing all of these guarantee that you will go out with a female bodybuilder or figure competitor? Of course not. What it will do, however, is make you more presentable AND it will increase your confidence – which is one of the traits many muscular women complain that today’s men are lacking.
** Quick tip: If you feel nervous about how you look, quickly change your focus to how she looks and then ask yourself, “How can I have fun helping her transition from where she is right now to a more playful state of mind?” Focus on fun! Be playful, tease her a little bit, then be a complete gentleman, and tease her again. Just know how to do that!
• You can be nice, but you have to be more than JUST nice
Very true. Muscular women are no different than regular, everyday women. They want a combination of romance, fun, playfulness, naughtiness, adventure, and genuine respect. Assuming she deserves these gifts which you can offer (and if she has been rude or mean then simply excuse yourself and walk away) then you can be nice, especially around her friends, professional associates, and her family. Just give her a wink when no one is looking and be playful so that it’s special JUST to her.
• Meet women at many places, rather than just the bar or club
True. The best places to meet muscular woman who are intelligent, healthy, funny and interesting are: the gym, a smoothie shop, supplement shop, health food market, jogging trail (who wants to always do cardio on the treadmill?!?), and at bodybuilding-related events. Of course, one of the best places to meet all sorts of good-looking women is a coffee shop.
Yet there is one more place: any generic store which has women’s makeup, shampoos, etc. For example in the U.S. there are stores called CVS and Target. Take a stroll in any of these places after work, or on a weekend afternoon, and you will see lots of good-looking women buying all sorts of things. You probably didn’t think that being in line at Target would be a place to meet athletic women, but good-looking women need deodorant and shampoo just like everyone else!
Other places include lunch-type restaurants which serve relatively healthy foods (salads, chicken, etc.), churches, outdoor fitness events, and even the bookstore!
Again, at least these places are quieter than a bar or club… and you won’t have to deal with a cover charge!
• Women like men that are liked by other women.
VERY TRUE. Muscular women like to know that a guy treats women with respect, protects their needs for security, and can carry on a conversation about something more than sports or work! Many muscular women have complained that the few guys they let into their worlds end up being one-dimensional or don’t go out their way to protect the woman’s security.
If other women, even if it’s just your sister and her friends, are seen laughing and having a good time with you it gives a woman the first impression that you are trustworthy because most women would not be seen in public with someone who is a bad guy.
• No pickup lines
True. Customize your first comment on something specific to her or commenting on a situation around you. Better yet, just be an interesting guy and introduce yourself like you would anybody. Start talking and craft a fun, playful conversation with her right off the bat.
Remember, nothing rehearsed. Just be genuinely interesting, interested in her, and have genuine passions for something other than work. That’s a tough combination to beat!
• Even librarians read romance novels
Just because you have seen female bodybuilders in suggestive photos on the internet, it does not mean that the specific muscular woman you have just met is like that. Even if you meet the same woman you saw in the photos, it STILL doesn’t mean she is like that every second of her life!
You need to give such a woman dichotomy. You have to elicit the playful side in her, yet respect her intelligence. You need to be the type of guy who is comfortable lifting weights in a hardcore gym and then two hours later be dressed in a tuxedo at a museum opening. This ability to be comfortable in opposite ends of the spectrum is a quality which many muscular women CRAVE in men, especially if he encourages her to be equally as comfortable in opposite environments.
Allowing such a woman to feel alive and playful in your company will go a long way toward success with beautiful women of all types.
• Online dating is a great way to make introductions
VERY TRUE. From 2007-2011, over 200 female bodybuilders and figure competitors ventured to just ONE of the online dating sites. This doesn’t include the other ones as well! Look at this link regarding muscle dating sites.
• You have to know how to flirt
VERY TRUE. This does not mean being sexual. It means being fun, playful, quick-witted, and having little surprises. Ultimately, muscular women don’t want guys who are “stuffy” or so rigid that they are perceived as boring or domineering.
If you are not comfortable with flirting then practice on women for whom there is no “consequence.” Try making the day a little brighter for the lady who serves your coffee, try to get a laugh from the secretary at the customer’s offices, and make a waitresses day by having her smile and enjoy taking care of you. Once it becomes “second nature” then flirting with gorgeous muscular women will be nothing “earth shattering” or so “monumental” that you freeze up.
Flirting also tests the woman to see if you want HER in your life. Remember that just because she has a phenomenal physique, it is not enough. She has to be the type of woman you enjoy in order to make it beneficial for the both of you!
• First date = nothing too intimidating
TRUE. Get together someplace where you can walk around, be playful, or someplace where there is a mutual interest. Even better, create a playful “challenge” — if you win a round of pool/mini-golf/basketball/arcade game/laser tag/etc. then you get a scoop of ice cream with her spoon-feeding you the first bite. If she wins then she gets something fun and enjoyable (e.g. you then take her to the bookstore to read her favorite book, she gets to choose where to eat, etc.). Make it fun, playful, and open-ended. You want to have as much adventure as she does!
There is more to the e-book, so be sure to visit Tiffany Taylor’s Guy Gets Girl, and learn how to adapt what you read to your dealings with muscular women.
Extra Article Written By Tiffany Taylor
How to Attract A Woman: The Best Ways to Handle Physical Contact
By Tiffany Taylor
Touching/physical contact is an absolutely vital component of seduction. You can’t successfully pick-up a girl without first establishing a basic level of mutual tactility – I.E. Before you can move in for the kill by kissing and/or sleeping with her, you MUST first have a regular, healthy amount of touching that works both ways: she flirtatiously puts her hand on your knee, you encircle her waist with your arm and pull her a little closer – whatever form the physical contact takes, it has to be present for you to achieve your final goal of actual seduction. And that right there is where the problem for many men lies: how can a guy get the ball rolling when it comes to tactility and physical closeness? If the girl’s not being tactile, how can a guy develop mutual physical closeness without freaking her out or scaring her away?
Often men just “go for it” and consequently end up making the girl feel uncomfortable or even slightly violated because of their rushed attempt at physical closeness. Other men decide they don’t want to risk putting a girl off, so hold back any kind of touching or bodily contact – doing so usually sends out the wrong message, that the guy is either not interested in the girl, or that he’s simply too timid to show it, neither of which are attractive scenarios in the mind of a good-looking, fun-loving girl. Okay, so what’s the solution to this awkward problem?
Quite simply, you just need to follow a few basic rules or procedures, all of which conform to the personal boundaries of most girl (and therefore don’t appear uncalled for or rushed) but at the same time clearly indicate that you’re a confident guy who’s not afraid of getting to know girls and even showing it through casual, relaxed physical contact. So, let’s take a look.
1. Many men think that touching a girl in any way when they first meet them is an absolute no-no. But that’s simply not true. To form a positive, strong first impression and create an immediate bond with a girl when you first introduce yourself or get talking, casually and gently touch the outside of her right arm while at the same time verbally expressing something. The outside of a woman’s arm is not intimate enough a place for the touch to feel strange or out-of-place, but at the same time it’s a clear-cut sign that you’re a personable, socially adept kind of guy. Don’t be afraid to give it a try – you’ll notice the benefits immediately.
2. Once you’ve started a conversation with a girl, or when you randomly find yourself chatting to a woman you really like the look of, it’s important to keep up the physical contact. Doing so helps maintain the bond and rapport you’ve already created and also helps build it further, into mutually felt sexual attraction. You can use something called ‘Stealth Tactility’ to do this. Quite simply, stealth tactility involves making physical contact with the girl in a disguised way. For example, if she wants to go to the bar or bathroom but doesn’t know the way, you can use stealth tactility by placing your hand on her shoulder, drawing her in a little closer, swivelling both of your bodies round until you face in the right direction, then point past other people or obstacles with your other hand to where she needs to go.
3. Lastly, always try to use a ‘contact close’ when you finish your conversation with a girl. For example, after swapping numbers or arranging to meet again, give her a kiss on the cheek or a hug and a kiss. Many men think that the hard work’s been done once something’s been arranged for a later date, but making physical contact before you part with a girl is always a great way of ensuring she remembers you and really cannot wait to see you again.
Tiffany Taylor is the female author of GuyGetsGirl, a special guide that reveals for the first time what goes on the minds of women AND how men can use special psychological and social techniques to attract and seduce them – regardless of their looks, bank balance or the car they drive. Attract And Seduce Women Today