Even though this website reminds men that female bodybuilders, figure competitors and other athletic and muscular women are still just women, they definitely require the men they let into their lives to be stronger than the typical “wussy” man. These women have such high energy levels that a complacent guy who does have some degree of aggressive or assertive masculine traits just won’t do well despite being a nice guy.
Here are some suggestions from an old e-book called How To Become An Alpha Male. They were solid years ago and still are applicable today.
An estimated 67% to 93% of human communication (according to university researchers) is non-verbal, and your body language reveals your internal emotional state. Whether someone’s parents just died, or whether they just got promoted to CEO… you can tell by observing their body language.
So, as a man who tries to pick up and seduce women, you should be mindful of what you’re communicating non-verbally.
Body language consists of the following:
– Your movements. They should be nonchalant, as if you’re so fabulously successful that there’s rarely a reason for you to rush nor try to impress anybody. Move through the world doing what you want and assuming that others will follow.
– The displacement of your body. Your arms and legs should be spread out. Don’t be afraid to take up space.
– Your voice. It should have a calm, soothing, and commanding effect. Don’t speak too fast or strain your voice.
– Your face. Keep your facial muscles relaxed. Never tense your jaw, and only rarely should you frown or wrinkle your brow.
– Your shoulders. Keep them relaxed like they’d be if you just got a massage. Don’t raise them up like a nervous person.
I would even go as far as to say that you body language is more important than anything you say, because if your body language doesn’t match what you say, then you won’t succeed with women.
You see, if you tell a woman stories that convey your confidence, but at the same time you slump over and fold your arms, then you come across as fake.
I’ve picked up women before merely through the use of my body language. For example, a couple months ago I was at a coffee shop that I frequent, lounging on the couch, arms spread out, with my feet up on the table.
The mindset I had was that I felt so comfortable that it was as if I were in my home lounging on my own couch. It was as if I owned the coffee shop.
The net result was that a girl sitting near me put down her book and started engaging me in random small talk.
(Whenever an attractive girl you don’t know starts a random conversation with you, you should ALWAYS assume that she’s attracted to you. This is because women generally won’t risk the whole male-female dynamic, especially with a stranger, unless they feel attraction.)
The conversation went on for awhile, I got her number, called her that night, and a few days later we met and after several hours went to her place, where I spent the night. (We finally had sex in the morning.)
The bottom line though is that she became initially attracted to me and approached me because of my body language.
Now, of course body language isn’t enough. You also must have an internal alpha male mindset that’s consistent with your body language.
But make no mistake about it… if your body language conveys confidence, then your mood will also shift to become more confident. And have you ever noticed how when you walk with a spring in your step, you feel more upbeat?
Conversely, when you cast your eyes down and drag your feet, you feel depressed. So your mindset also follows the body language that you adopt.
So, in conclusion, be an alpha male with your mindset and your body language. Be in a woman’s personal space and be sexual and interested in her, but at the same time don’t be needy or desperate for her attention. Just be comfortable and enjoy yourself.
And when your body language conveys that, it means you’ll later be comfortable and enjoying yourself… with the woman.
Wouldn’t it be nice if you could create feelings within a woman of a deep connection with you… even if you two have known each other for only a few hours… and without having to resort to complicated (and risky!) hypnosis tactics?
Well, good news. There is a very easy, no-risk way to do this. I call it the Fated Encounter Technique.
Here’s why it works. Every woman has a fantasy from the time she was a little girl, triggered by a constant diet of romance movies and novels, about fate bringing the man of her dreams to her.
In one typical scene the guy and the girl almost bump into each other on the sidewalk. Instead, fate keeps them apart, and they go their separate ways.
Then, two years later, they live in the same apartment building. Yet after several close calls, they still don’t meet, again because of fate.
The two date other people, off and on, and yet are never happy. Months go by. The man and the woman each ponder what it will be like when they meet that special someone, someday…
And then near the end of the movie, fate finally brings them together. And of course they hit it off right from the start.
Wouldn’t it be nice if that could happen in real life, rather than having to wait through several dates before the woman finally feels comfortable enough with you to have sex?
Well, it can. You can speed the seduction process and have the woman feeling deeply connected with you by using my Fated Encounter Technique. I’ll explain how it works.
During the course of your conversation with the woman, you bring up places she has been to. If you’ve been to those same places, you then talk about how amazing it is that the two of you could have been there at the same time and yet destiny kept you apart.
Let’s say, to use a recent example I encountered, that she shops at the local Whole Foods grocery store.
You can then say, “That’s awesome. I shop there too. Imagine, we’ve probably seen each other there all the time!”
Another example would be that the two of you go to downtown LA all the time, and probably have walked past each other on many occasions.
And now, you can say, “Isn’t it amazing how fate has finally brought us together?”
As the conversation progresses, the two of you can talk about other coincidences, and the things the two of you might have done together if you’d only known each other.
With the seed planted, as the girl thinks about those coincidences, and how “fate” has now brought the two of you together, she will then start to feel as if she’s known you, on a deeper psychic level, for a lot longer than just a few hours.
You, she concludes, are the man she’s been waiting for all her life.
John Alexander is author of How to Become an Alpha Male, a seduction success guide for men. Learn the 7 Step Seduction System