An aspiring competitive female bodybuilder from Alabama wrote a 2010 article about the perspective which she and many other female bodybuilders share when it comes to dating. One of the better quotes from the article was:
“Of the men who have had relationships with female bodybuilders, they will tell you that dating them is not much different than dating a “normal woman”. They feel that female bodybuilders are normal women too who just happen to be in a sport which requires muscularity. These are “women and not aliens” and love the same things that most women love in a man and otherwise.”
Here is the link to the entire article:
If you still have trouble being playful, fun and in control of yourself around muscular women then you have two options:
- Get your head right about women in general and understand the basics before moving onto more beautiful muscular women, as they will force you to be (on average) more of a real man than regular women will require. You can get the basics down by going here: Dating resources
- Talk with actual female bodybuilders, figure competitors, powerlifters, athletes and fitness models outside of your area. This takes the stress off and helps you better understand how to date female bodybuilders
