There is a common sentiment among female bodybuilders, figure competitors, fitness models and other athletic women. It is that once a guy is deemed, by his actions, to be a “dork” then he never will be bring out the elements of attraction.
Some guys never get this, and they give up their masculinity easily. This could be due to emotional damage from childhood, failed relationships or other situations where their unique attraction elements (to beautiful women) are self-arrested.
For example, don’t ever say anything like the 300+ pound guy did in this reality TV show clip:
If you have similar experiences (no physical touch from a woman in ages) then that is the current reality. There are several things which can be done to change that reality into one which is more beneficial.
These include legitimate therapy to deal with repressed issues, getting in better shape, improving your spiritual growth, improving your physical health and getting your mind right about beautiful women. See the link to the woman’s presentation on deeper emotional subjects here for a starting point.
Get your mind and emotions right as quickly as you can. There are some absolutely beautiful muscular women who have been isolated due to friends not understanding the commitment to fitness, friends & family who issue judgement, bad previous relationships, and only getting approached by those who see them for their muscles rather than the beautiful woman on the inside.
Make the change to offer them REAL value and help them become even more beautiful on the inside than they are on the outside. It is a smart, healthy approach and it keeps you focused on what makes her special and unique instead of just the “stereotype” of a bodybuilder.
